Another issue that comes up often in dependency cases is parents blaming foster care for their child’s behavior. It’s common to hear:
“My child didn’t act this way before they were in foster care.”
While there may be some truth that foster care itself can be a difficult adjustment, the reality is this: the reason the child is in foster care in the first place is because of the parent’s actions (or inaction).
Dependency cases are traumatic—not just for the parent, but especially for the child. A child being removed from their home is one of the most stressful and destabilizing experiences they will ever face. When parents spend more time making excuses than making progress, they only prolong the process and increase the chances of an unfavorable outcome, including possible termination of parental rights.
Parents who come into court with a “fight the system” attitude and refuse to comply with services usually have the longest and most difficult cases. By contrast, parents who—regardless of whether they agree with the reasons for removal—decide to cooperate, participate in services, and show good faith effort tend to have much better outcomes.
That’s why my advice after a 72-hour hearing, if the court finds a child dependent, is simple:
Jump through every hoop the Department puts in front of you.
Even if you don’t agree with the reasons for removal, the fastest way to get your child back is to comply with the services and requirements set by the court and DHR.
Facing a Dependency Case?
Juvenile court can feel overwhelming, especially when the state is involved in your family’s life. If you or someone you know is dealing with a dependency petition, it’s important to have an experienced advocate on your side. Contact Hayden G. Sizemore, Attorney at Law, LLC for guidance and representation in juvenile court matters.
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